Saturday, October 29, 2016


Children for God’s Glory

Once while a revival preacher returned home, he was asked about the souls who came forward in the meeting that night. He said he got two and a half souls. So his wife responded: Oh, two adults and a child! He said, ‘no, two children and an adult’. He gave the children full credit and the adult half a credit because his usable life span for Jesus was already half gone. 

This truth is seen alive and well in the way Jesus handled children during his earthly ministry. Jesus attracted children to Him and blessed them by putting His hands on them (Matthew 19:15). He hugged them and showed special love to them (Mark 10:16). He used them as object lessons for those who were interested in going to heaven. He reprimanded his disciples for forbidding children from coming to Him (Matthew18:2-6). During His healing ministry, Jesus gave great emphasis to children whom he touched and healed on a few occasions. He raised up little children who were dead (Matthew (9:2-26). There were boys singing hosanna to Jesus even at the displeasure of the religious leaders (Matthew 21:15-16). Jesus especially praised the Father for revealing truth concerning Him to little children (Matthew 11:25). For Jesus children were very special to His heart and He valued them much. But by the way Jesus handled children, the Bible shows the greatness and glory of Jesus and not that of the greatness of children because Jesus touched them. When Jesus blessed the children, their lives ended up in bringing glory to God.

Jesus’ Attitude to Children

There is no denying the fact that Jesus valued children from the angle of eternity. He has great plans for their lives and He wants to make use of them for His Kingdom. So Jesus shuns anyone who is a hindrance to children from coming to Him. Some religious leaders think that Jesus has far more serious things to do than spending time with children. Some others think that children will be interference into the time and ministry of Jesus. But Jesus proved it in the contrary. He kept telling His disciples that they should in no way hinder children from coming to His presence. For them religion is for the adults and the seniors and that children have nothing to do with it until they grow older. But Jesus proved to them that He takes glory to Himself through the life of a child who is fully surrendered to Him. 
There are those who hinder children from going to Jesus through their unfriendly and legalistic behavior and attitude. There are others who engage in ungodly activities which shun children away. There are still others who verbally, physically or emotionally abuse children and create deep wounds in their hearts which are difficult to heal. There are also those who lure children into sinning early in life and they grow up in the depth of sin. Parents, teachers, media moguls and social networks are often used by the enemy to hinder children. But let us take a look at the great potential in each child if he or she is surrendered to Jesus at quite a young age. Jesus invites, welcomes and motivates children to come to Him for eternal changes in their life. When they surrender themselves and all that they have, it ends up in the glory of Jesus. He is exemplified in and through their surrendered lives. Others will see and believe that all that has happened in the lives of these children are because they came to Jesus and will glorify Him. 

Boys or Girls

The Bible provides insights about the way God has used both boys and girls for His glory. A great example of a boy in the Old Testament whose life and ministry glorified God is Samuel. He was totally committed to serving God from his boyhood onward. He was trained by his mother to be a spiritual boy and that yielded excellent results throughout his ministry. Daniel, Joseph and Timothy are other examples of boys whose lives glorified God and accomplished His purpose on earth. 

An Obscure Girl

Among girls, the most outstanding is the Jewish girl who served in the house of Naaman, the Aramian General. She was able to help Naaman get full healing of his leprosy and to make him subsequently a believer in the God of Israel. Her willingness to speak on behalf of her God without fear or embarrassment brought great results in her life and that of her Master. Her service for God is never forgotten, but her name remains obscure. Heaven knows her name and she will be rewarded for her service. These and other examples show us how lives change dynamically when surrendered to God for His glory. 

An Obscure Boy Too

In the Gospel of John, we read about an obscure boy whose identity is kept in the background by the Spirit of God (John 6:1-14). This boy attended the large gathering of people to listen to Jesus on the banks of Tiberius. He was hungry and tired, and had a packet of poor boy’s lunch of five barley bread and two small fish. In a crowd of about 12,000 people in a thoroughly unorganized setting, it would be normally difficult to identify this boy with his lunch packet or for the boy to make the availability of his lunch known to apostles. He had every reason to keep his packet to himself and eat it silently without anyone finding fault with him. But he willingly came forward to surrender his lunch packet for whatever it could accomplish in the hands of Jesus. He had no idea how Jesus was going to make use of it. He was least concerned about the means or the technology Jesus was going to use, but he had the faith that something could be done with his lunch by Jesus. Probably he thought at least Jesus could eat it to satisfy himself. But this obscure boy was willing to make his packet known to others and to part with it without at least keeping something from it for himself. He is a prime example for a selfless boy. If he was unwilling to part with his lunch, it would have remained with him as an ordinary lunch, but when surrendered, the impact has become a few thousand folds, all for the glory of Jesus.

We do not see that Jesus tried to expose the boy for acclaim or recognition. Jesus kept him in the background and made sure that the glory of God will not be taken away by anyone in that crowd. We might expect that the boy and his lunch packet were in focus, but we see that it was Jesus who was in focus as the God of Glory. The number of people who ate, the way food was served and the way Jesus multiplied the bread and fish were also not the focus. It was Jesus and Him alone who received all glory through the surrender of an obscure boy and his willingness to share all that he had with Jesus. 

What would have prompted this obscure boy to part with all that he had for Jesus? First, his heart would have been already sensitized about the teachings of the Messiah. Secondly he would have listened to Jesus keenly which would have moved his heart. Thirdly he would have been moved by the great need and the desperate and helpless situation of having no food for the hungry people around. Fourthly he had the courage to make a quick decision about what to do with his lunch packet. Fifthly he would have believed that the Jesus who captured his heart through His message could change even inanimate things like bread and fish to make it a blessing to a large crowd.  But little did he realize that his surrender was the only answer to the problems of the crowd and the apostles in the face of the most difficult circumstance. This obscure boy speaks to us today in loud and clear terms about what we can all accomplish in our lives if we submit ourselves to Jesus to do what He would want to do with us and our lives. This boy also speaks to all the boys and girls of this world and challenges them to consider submitting their lives to Jesus at the earliest possible age so that Jesus would get them throughout their lifespan for eternal use. His act of surrender made the large crowd to believe in Jesus because they saw the glory of Jesus in this miracle (John 6:14).

Lessons for our times 

Surrendering to Jesus at the earliest possible age in life makes the potentials in a life much greater than otherwise. It cannot be done with ritualism or legalism, but with fully conscious decision to surrender oneself. So every child ought to be taught, trained, disciplined, led, guided, developed, monitored and evaluated for proper ways of spiritual understanding and growth. Children can be taught the ways of the Lord from the time they are able to communicate with their parents in some measure. We are instructed to teach them in the ways of the Lord (Proverbs 22:6). All of these will lead them to become objects through which Jesus will then reveal His glory.
In training up a child, what is most important is to communicate with the child so that the child will understand the messages of God’s love, spirituality and discipline. When we adopt the communication style of Jesus, it will help children to live a surrendered life for the glory of God. It will further help children to guard against getting into the rut of the sinful world. It will help others to see the glory of Jesus in the lives of such children. May He be glorified through all our lives, attitudes and actions!

Wednesday, July 27, 2016


Women's Ministries in the Church: Conflicting or Complementary?


There is no denying the fact that the ministries of Brothers and Sisters have occupied important place in the functioning of the local church. This is acknowledged and underscored by the Lord Jesus and His Apostles. But there are different points of view as far as the types of ministries both brothers and sisters ought to perform in the gatherings of the believers. With regard to the ministry of sisters, there is wide range of opinions and points of view. It ranges from total involvement at one extreme, even in leadership roles in certain Christian denominations, and total denial of opportunities for Sisters in any ministry whatsoever in certain churches. There are those who teach against head covering for Sisters in the large evangelical communities on the one hand while there are others who insist on head covering even in their homes (as we are to pray without ceasing and would need head covering almost 24 hours a day). In this light, it is profitable to examine the biblical position on the ministries, roles and responsibilities of sisters without bias or preconceived notions.

The Common Ground
The Bible teaches emphatically that both men and women are equal before God and in relation to God. Man and woman were equally created in God’s image (Genesis 1:27). They are equal in God’s sight with regard to the salvation of their souls (Galatians 3:26-29). Both men and women are co-heirs of the grace of life (1 Peter 3:7). The woman is not inferior and less important than the man. This is reflected in the way God relates to man and woman and how they relate to God.
Framework for Ministries in New Testament
Even though men and women both serve the Lord and His church in significant ways, we should not conclude that God has intended men and women to function in the same capacity. They have different roles and responsibilities in the ministries of the church.
Here we should be careful to understand that even though all believers are imparted spiritual gifts, some are exclusively for ministries in and for the general assembly, like shepherding, preaching, leading, guiding and teaching all the believers. Many other gifts are for use for all believers on a personal and individual basis (help, prayer, encouraging, giving etc.). We are all called upon to heed to these instructions in the Word of God. 
We see that general accountability in the administration of the spiritual gifts in the assembly is vested with the ministering brethren who are the spiritual leaders of the church like elders (pastors), teachers, evangelists and deacons. All believers should exercise their spiritual gifts under the leadership of the assembly which is given to the brothers (Ephesians 4:11-16; 1 Timothy 3:1-10; Titus 2:5-9).
The Bible clearly defines the role of the women in the church, as in the family and society. It is abundantly clear that the Bible doesn’t envisage women to be in the leadership role of the church (1 Timothy 2:11-15; 1 Corinthians 14: 34-35). This means that they are not envisaged to be pastors, elders teachers and preachers in the assembly. The Bible warns that the church should not be marred by the leadership of women because in the beginning, a woman was used by the enemy to mar the first creation of God through sin (1 Timothy 2:12-14). Thus women are not expected to take leadership roles, but to take supportive role in the church.

Examples of Women’s Ministries

During the Old Testament times, several women were given spiritual responsibilities, like Deborah (Judges 4:4), Huldah (2 Chronicles 34:22) and Anna (Luke 2:36). They performed their ministries under the Law and within the restraints laid down in it. Hannah followed this restraint in keeping silence in the Temple of God as she prayed quietly when her lips moved, but sound didn’t come out (1 Samuel 1:13).

The New Testament introduces us to Priscilla (Acts 18:26) and Phoebe (Romans 16:1) who were involved in the ministries of the church by involving in evangelism, teaching of individuals and sisters. These ministries were definitely on the basis of the spiritual gifts given to them by the Holy Spirit.

When we study the subject of spiritual gifts, we see that the Spirit of God imparts spiritual gifts to all believers (Romans 12:3-10; 1 Corinthians 12:7-11; 1 Peter 4:10-11) which include sisters as well as brothers. The sisters are to minister on the basis of their spiritual gifts, just as men, in the assembly of God’s children on the basis of the spiritual needs of the believers.

We read about the admonition of Paul to the sisters to do their ministries by covering their head only. This includes prayer and prophesy (forth-telling or preaching and not foretelling) (1 Corinthians 11:5).
Luke writes about the four daughters of Evangelist Philip. These young ladies had the spiritual gift of prophesy (forth-telling or preaching and not foretelling) (Acts 21:9). At the same time, we can notice that when the Spirit wanted to foretell something to Apostle Paul, He used a brother to speak to him and not the sisters, even though these four forth-telling sisters were there (Acts 21:10-11).
All of these evidences prove beyond the shadow of doubt that Sisters are given spiritual gifts and ministries by the Holy Spirit and that they are expected to minister to the needs of believers in the church and people outside on the basis of these gifts.
Women’s Role in the church
Sisters are given a distinct role to teach and build up other sisters, especially the younger women folk (Titus 2:2-5). The areas of their teaching are not necessarily the doctrinal truths which are normally taught by the men who have the teaching gift and responsibility. The elder sisters have the mandate to teach the younger ones biblical truths related to behavior, character, attitude, family and social relations. These include:
i.                     Discipling younger sisters in their daily walk
ii.                   Exercising self-control in their personal and social behavior
iii.                Relation with husbands in loving, respecting and submitting to them (to the married ones  and those who contemplate marriage)
iv.                 Biblically correct children wisely and prudently
v.                   Personal restraint in passions, aspirations and desires
vi.                 Modesty in personal appearance as good examples to others and for keeping testimony
vii.                Uprightness in character and behavior
In these areas, a woman understands other women more intimately and can exercise her prophetic (forth-telling) gift to minister to their spiritual needs. They may teach the younger ones individually, counsel them individually and in small groups and in the gatherings of the sisters.
What the Bible teaches about women with prophetic (forth-telling) gift leads us to think that there are regular gatherings of the sisters during the week. Otherwise, where would the sisters who have the prophetic gift exercise it? How else would the assembly know that certain sister has the prophetic gift? Surely she doesn’t have permission to exercise her prophetic gift in the general assembly gatherings but only in the gatherings of sisters in the church or in the community and among children (like Sunday school).
It is also true that the prophetic gift is not to help women in their physical needs alone like what Tabitha (Dorcas) did. Tabitha probably also had a prophetic role in reaching out and teaching the women at Joppa. We read about Phoebe who was a deaconess in the church in Cenchrea and Priscilla who was a partner in association with her husband Aquila in building up Apollos. Paul also speaks about several sisters who partnered with him in his long years of ministry at various places, in Romans Chapter 16. We also read about such ministering sisters who battled in gospel with Paul like Euodia and Syntyche (Philippians 4:2-3). These sisters were not necessarily cooks or butlers of Paul, but his associates in spiritual ministry with spiritual gifts and who worked among the women folk in the places where Paul ministered.
Practical considerations
When Paul mentions about women prophesying with head covering, he can only mean that women have such a role in the church. But prophesying by sisters could only be exclusively among the sisters in the assembly, as the sisters are not permitted by the Bible to teach or lead the brothers in the assembly (1 Timothy 2:11-15).  
But women’s gifts are to be used in the assembly as authenticated by the Scripture, among sisters, outsiders and children who may be baptized at a relatively younger age, or even unsaved children. But it may be administered under the general leadership and the guidance of gifted men in the assembly. Sisters would do well to remember that they have to exercise their gifts in humility, contrition and submission. Sisters should accept and perform these ministries with grace and without rebellion or conflict. At the same time, the leadership of the church should not be tempted to suppress the spiritual gifts of the sisters, but fan it to flame (2 Timothy 1:6).
Lastly, the New Testament emphasizes the role of sisters also as godly mothers who bear and bring up children for God (1 Timothy 2:15). In this, Jochebed (Moses’ mother) and Hannah (Samuel’s mother) were great examples in the Old Testament. In the New Testament, we have the example of Lois and Eunice (the grandmother and mother of Timothy) (2 Timothy 1:5).
In conclusion, we may say that what the sisters are instructed to do cannot be done by the brothers effectively. What the brothers alone should do must not be taken over by the sisters. Thus we serve the Lord in His Church in a complementary manner. That pretty well summarizes our concerns about the role of women in the church.

Sunday, July 24, 2016


Thought Life and Witnessing

Among the many counseling mails I receive, the following was received from a 15-year old boy by the name Joe (name changed). Pertinent parts of his mail read as follows:


Hi uncle:

I am a high school student from a Christian family and am born again. I want to be baptized. But I feel that I am often faced with temptations by the devil. I am unable to control my thoughts and make it clean. Uncle, will you please give me some tips which I can follow to remove these temptations. I have nobody else to share this burden with. Please pray for me, uncle. I am much disturbed about lack of victory in my Christian life.   

Another thing: I try my best to send gospel messages to my friends, but I'm scared that the relationship between me and my friends will end because of this. Please pray for me. I am also praying. 

Please give me a reply soon, uncle.

Bye uncle.


10th June, 2016.


I wrote the following reply to Joe, part of which I want to share with all the Youth and Young At Heart. 


Hello Dear Joe:

Thank you so much for your kind mail. Thanks for writing about your burdens in your Christian life. I assure you that I shall prayerfully help you with some tips.

I am glad you are thinking about speaking to your friends about Jesus. Fear always comes from the devil. If you trust Jesus and leave the consequences to Him, He will give you the boldness to speak to your friends about Jesus. Jesus will take care of the consequences. You should be as loving as possible when you speak or send gospel messages to them. Please take care not to get into any argument while speaking. Whenever there is disagreement, make it “agree to disagree agreeably” and have peace. Keep the relationship going and continue to pray for them. God will work in their hearts and will bring about a change in them one of these days. Remember, you are the ‘only Bible’ they read and so be very careful the way you live among them, speak and behave. They will watch all of these in you and will evaluate you.

I am glad that you are desirous of getting baptized.  This is one of the earliest steps you should take in your Christian life to demonstrate that you love Jesus more than anything or anyone else in this world. When you have this desire, the enemy will try to pull you back. But you should refuse to be pulled back by any force. Prayerfully submit yourself to the Lord and ask Him to take control of your thought life and desires. Whenever temptations come, do the following:

1.        Denounce it in the name of Jesus Christ and ask in prayer that it is removed from your thinking. Keep praying continuously, everyday and at every opportunity (James 4:7/1 Peter 5:8-9)

2.        Pray for strength to resist the devil (Matthew 7:7-11)

3.        Guard your eyes and ears from seeing or listening to anything that will try to tempt you (Job 31:1; Proverbs 4:23-27; Matthew 6:22; 1 John 2:16)

4.        Whenever there is a failure, confess it to the Lord and ask for forgiveness (1John 2:1-2)

5.        Then thank God for the victory you experience each time (2 Corinthians 2:14)

Joe, please remember, victory is never permanent; it comes to us one step at a time. You can get victory over sin and thought life step by step and a day at a time. So live carefully and confess and repent each time you fall. You cannot stop temptation, because it comes from the outside. But you can keep away from it and from all its entry points and be careful not to fall into it. Spend much time with the Lord in prayer and Bible study. These are ways to get victory over thought life. Also as much as possible, please don’t be alone anywhere, but always be with others, like mom, dad, brother and Christian friends.

Please note the following verses which will help strengthen your fight against sin and thought life. Study and meditate on these verses. The result will be amazing.

1.      Romans 6:12-14 (Submit our bodies and our whole being as instruments for God to use for His glory)

2.      Romans 13:14 (Make efforts not to make any provision for sin and wrong thoughts)

3.      1 Corinthians 6:19-20 (We are not ours and we should allow God to do what He pleases only in our lives, thoughts and bodies)

4.      2 Corinthians 7:1(Keep yourself cleansed through reading of the Word, confession and prayer)

5.      2 Timothy 2:22 (Flee or run away from all circumstances which would prompt us to sin)

6.      1 Peter 2:11(Keep away from fleshly lust which try to enter your mind)

7.      Philippians 4:8 (Think about sublime, noble and holy things all the time, as much as possible. Fill your heart and thoughts with it)

8.      1 John 1:9; 2:1-2/Proverbs 28:13 (when you have a failure, confess your sins and ask for forgiveness. God will definitely forgive you)

9.      Romans 12:1-2 (Submit your body and mind to God during daily prayer’ Live daily with this fact that your bodies are already submitted to God and that it is not right to take it back from Him)

10.  Psalms 119:11 (Spend much time in the Word of God – read, meditate, memorize and study)

11.  2 Corinthians 3:18 (Look at Jesus by faith and be occupied with Him and things concerning Him

12.  Proverbs 18:10 (Call on the name of the Lord in moments of fierce temptation)

Please follow this pattern of life every day. Also I recommend the following for you to consider and implement soonest possible:

1.      Have a QUIET TIME every day. Select and read a small portion and meditate and study that portion. God will speak to you from that portion to strengthen your spiritual life

2.      Find a PRAYER PARTNER who is closely known to you. Perhaps it could be a friend or some other youth from the assembly or outside the assembly. Meet with him sometime during the week and spend some time in prayer together. This will strengthen your spiritual life.

3.      Along with the Bible, please read good CHRISTIAN BOOKS, like True Discipleship (By William MacDonald). I shall send you a set of books if you contact me (E-mail:)

I hope all of these will help you in your Christian walk.

My recommendation is that you need not wait to decide about baptism. If you have the assurance of salvation, without the shadow of doubt, please go ahead and get baptized. As you obey the Lord, He will give you the strength day by day to resist the devil and give you victory over your thought life and sins. Thus each day you will have a closer walk with the Lord.

Dear Joe: Please write to me if you have further questions about any of the above or anything new. I will continue to remember you in my prayers that the Lord will protect you from all evil, strengthen you to resist the devil and sins in your thought life and take good care for you. Remember! There is victory waiting for you each day as you live that day in faith in the Lord Jesus Christ.

And Joe: If you want to speak to me, please send an e-mail, and I shall call you or send you my mobile number. I will be careful to protect your identity. 

With prayers and love in Jesus

Oommen Philip uncle
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